HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP WORK

UNCONTROLLABLE ANGER IN RELATIONSHIPS

Many relationships have gone sour and could lead to break up if nothing is done quickly about this issue
– uncontrollable anger. It cut across our everyday activities, your relationship with your colleagues in your work environment, your relationship with members in your worship centre (church), and your relationship with your spouse at home.

We will be looking at uncontrollable anger as it affects our marriage relationship. For couple to enjoy cordiality and blissfulness of marriage, certain things must play priority in the home and in their lives as well, because charity they say begins at home. We will take each individual and highlight what he or she expects from the other person.

HUSBAND’s EXPECTATIONS

- The husband being the head of the family expects his wife to respect him at all times.

- He also expects his wife to obey and carry out his instructions whether it is convenient for her or not.

WIFE’s EXPECTATIONS

- The wife on the other hand expects the man to shower more love on her

- She also expects her husband’s attention whenever she calls for it, even if it means the man not attending to other issues that may be of personal importance to him, his business, etc.

AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP BUILD UP

You need to understand one thing, in relationship matter it takes individual couple to make it work, because no marriage is 100% perfect. The man needs to understand that women are highly emotional in their thinking, and should not be castigate for that. The woman also needs to understand the man as the head of the family who is highly talented logically in his thinking, as should not be taken for granted on that.

Now look at it this way two people of different back ground, different social life style, different belief, language and all that coming together in matrimony, and you think that there will not arise occasional clashes, but the antidote to putting away that is – UNDERSTANDING.

- Couple needs to understand and feel what the other person feels.

- They need to respect one another’s view and opinion.

- They should reciprocate love to one another.

- They should point out each other’s wrong doings, and not by nagging all day.

Finally, remember that uncontrollable anger brings quarrel, breakup in marriages and destruction. We should avoid it like plaque, even Moses in the bible just by reason of his anger the promise land that he toiled and labored for eluded him.

Blissful reading;

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